๐ฐ๐ท 5 Korean Customs That May Surprise Foreigners
- Green Team
- Jul 6
- 3 min read
Updated: Jul 6
"Did I just make a mistake without knowing it?""Why does it feel like everyoneโs watching me?"
๐ If you're living or working in Korea,there might be a few cultural moments that surprise or confuse you at first!
But don't worryโunderstanding these small differences will help you feel more at homeand get closer to your Korean coworkers and friends ๐
1๏ธโฃ Age & Titles Matter (A Lot!)
In Korea, age determines how you speak to someone
Itโs totally normal to ask, โHow old are you?โ when you first meet
Instead of calling people by name, titles like โManager,โ โTeam Lead,โ or โSunbaeโ (senior) are used
People often use family-style terms like Oppaย (older brother), Unniย (older sister), Hyung, and Noona!
๐น Tip:ย Start with polite/formal language until you know the right tone!
2๏ธโฃ Using Spoon & Chopsticks Together
Koreans use chopsticks for side dishesย and spoons for soup and rice
Itโs common to use both hands while eating
Also, donโt rest your spoon on the bowlโitโs seen as poor table manners
๐น Tip:ย Donโt worry! Just watch others and copy what they doโitโs okay to learn slowly.
3๏ธโฃ Company Dinners (Hoesik) & Drinking Culture
Many companies host group dinners called Hoesik
Alcohol is often involved, and itโs polite for a senior to pour your drink
These days, itโs perfectly fine to say โI donโt drinkโ politely
๐น Tip:ย When someone offers a drink, use two handsย to accept the glassโit's a sign of respect!
4๏ธโฃ Group Over Individual Mindset
In public spaces like cafes or elevators, silence is normal
But at school or work, group activities matterโlike eating lunch together or joining group chats
Leaving work alone when others are still there might feel a bit awkward
๐น Tip:ย Try joining group moments now and thenโit can help relationships grow faster!
5๏ธโฃ โReading the Roomโ (Nunchi Culture)
Korea has a concept called Nunchi: reading the mood without it being said
Examples: not leaving a meeting before your boss, waiting for others to start eating
It can be confusing, especially with no clear rules
๐น Tip:ย If you're unsure, itโs okay to ask: โIs it okay if I leave now?โ Koreans appreciate honesty!
๐จโ๐ผ Real Example
๐ฉ Aisha (26, Uzbekistan) attended a company dinner.When an older colleague poured her a drink, she accepted it with one hand.A coworker quietly said, โIn Korea, itโs polite to use two hands.โShe was surprisedโbut grateful to learn, and now feels much more comfortable with Korean customs ๐
โ FAQ: Frequently Asked Questions
Q. Will I get in trouble for making cultural mistakes?๐ Not at all! Most Koreans are very understandingโespecially toward foreigners.They appreciate it when you try to learn and respect the culture.
Q. Is it rude to decline alcohol?๐ Not anymore. These days, people respect your choice.Just say โI donโt drinkโ politely, and itโs totally fine.
Q. Do I need to be super formal all the time?๐ Not necessarily! Just start with polite speech and basic respectโthatโs enough.No need to overthink it ๐
โ Summary
Age, titles, group culture, and unspoken rules (Nunchi) are part of Korean daily life
Don't worryโjust learn step by step
Making mistakes is okay! What matters is your attitude ๐
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Take your time to understand Korean culture,and enjoy building a more comfortable and joyful life in Korea! ๐๐ฐ๐ท๐ผ




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